Ugly

Question: UGLY!???!!!?!?!?!!??!?!?!?!?!!? This isn't really a question. It's more of a message. You probably thought this was another unconfident, and/or look obsessed girl, asking hundreds of random internet people if they were "ugly" or not. Guess what? It isn't. Hello, my name is Samantha. I am 13 years old and live in a small town in New Jersey. Please, I plead for your undivided attention, for 10 short minutes of your busy lives, to read this very brief story; because I advise you it may change your life. Especially teenage girls. Ugly By Samantha C The date is January 7th, 2010. The Sony alarm clock's time reads 5:30, and Q104 is blasting Lady Gaga's, "Just Dance." Most of my classmates right now are most likely eating a bowl of Frosted Flakes, hopping into a pair of American Eagle jeans, slapping lip gloss over their pouty lips, or for the lazy ones who show up to school with wet hair and a poptart in their mouth, hitting the snooze button. I, however, am not doing any of the above. I am crying. I look in the mirror. "Look at those big, chubby, Charlie Brown cheeks," echoes that little bully that tears me apart every morning in my head. "And, eww! Those pimples! Red blemishes all over your face. UGLY." Then, I remember what a real guy had said to me. My biggest crush at the time, Dylan. "I'd NEVER go out with you. Your fat. Your ugly. And your weird." The waterworks sprinkling down my face like the Amazon Rain Forest in a storm become even heavier, as if that was even possible. I look into the figure mirror. My belly is big and my face has an almost double chin. "I'm UGLY." says, this time, Samantha, not the bully, or Dylan. "No one could EVER like ME! EVER! I mean look at me!!!! I'm like some awful troll!" I run into the bathroom and start rubbing powders and rogues and concealers and foundations all over my face. I'm still ugly. I put eyeshadow and mascara and eyeliner and glitter all over my eye. I'm still ugly. I rub lip gloss and tints and plumpers all over my lips. I'm still ugly. I'm still not dressed. I'm still crying. And to make things worse, my mom says, "Hurry up! The bus will be here in 10 minutes!" I quickly dash to get dressed. I try on everything in my wardrobe. Everything is UGLY. Not the clothes, of course, but on me they become old rags. There is a nice form fitting blue top. "That's to ugly on me." says Samantha, "it makes you look fat." I put on a huge, baggy T-Shirt, that goes down to my knees. It could fit my dad. Heck, it could probably fit a great dane. I don't care. I'm still ugly, why bother? "SAMANTHA!" Mom shouts, "You missed the bus AGAIN! Hurry UP!!!" I look in the mirror. This time my teardrops are black. Teardrops of death. The eyeliners and mascaras and makeup all drip off my face. "NO!!" I shout back at her. "NO!!!!! I'm NOT going to school!!" She walks in, takes all my makeup, and throws it in the garbage. I wail harder. "NOW CAN YOU GO TO SCHOOL!?!?!" her red furious face bellows. "N..n....NO!!!!" I manage to reply through the gasping for breath in my tears. She, being a very strong lady, carries me into the car and manages to get me into the school building, late, crying, as she bans me from all electronics and friends for a month. The second part didn't matter. Friends were non-existent in my life. My mom didn't know that though. I try to clean up before walking into the classroom. But my nose is still pink, my eyes are still red, and black blurs still frame my eyes. I walk in the classroom, holding back more tears. Peers start calling me "Cry Baby!" which eventually accentuates into a song to the tune of Patty Cake that goes, "Baby Face, Baby Face, cries black tears, big and fat as Mount Rainier!" I put my head down. Humiliated. As the year continued, I'd become anorexic, emo, and almost suicidal. Friendless, lonely, and depressed, I felt AWFUL. I got a lot of therapy and help, and by June, I felt great about myself. And looking back, I had realized, there was NOTHING wrong with me. I lost a lot of weight, learned to apply makeup correctly, and most importantly, became confident. I then made 20 friends in a week. The teasing stopped. I even got asked out a couple times. Now I am very happy and feel very fortunate. In conclusion, I'm not a supermodel. I'm not extremely hot. I'm not perfect. I DON'T CARE! I DON'T EXPECT TO BE! TAKE THAT WORLD! I love me for my flaws, the few pimples, the tiny bit of baby fat still lingering even after I lost weight. Guys, stop looking for Megan Fox glossed up girlfriends, cause most of you aren't so hot either. Look INSIDE. Realize you are whatever you want to be. People will love you for being kind and happy, and most of all, yourself. I want you to post your promise, to no long This got cut off!!! >:( It had said "To no longer judge you, or yourself by the outside, and to only describe someone as, "ugly", if they are a mean person.; To give everyone and everything a chance, including you. To smile with the pain. To not expect to be a supermodel. To love YOU and your flaws! Post a comment promising to do these things if your up to it. -SMILE! ♥ , Sammy :)

Answer: I've noticed that most kids named Dylan are douchebags.

Question: ugly?????? Dis is ma cuzon Emily is she ugly? type in www.whichwouldsuit.piczo.com

Answer: Ugly? not even in the ballpark of Ugly. Bad pic quality, but from what i can tell she is cute WITHOUT alot of makeup. That says ALOT. But thats just my 2 cents

Question: How do you console an ugly girl who complains about being ugly? Thankfully, I haven't had a whole lot of ugly girls ask me if I think they are ugly, but every now and then an ugly girl will share her frustrations with me over being unattractive. I don't know what to say. My knee jerk reaction is to say, "Oh, you're not ugly!" but that's dishonest, and I think most girls in these situations would know I was being disingenuous. But what am I supposed to say?

Answer: lol, just say there is someone out there that thinks you are beautiful. And there is someone out there that thinks Angelina Jolie is ugly! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And that is the truth.

Question: What are some people so ugly? What makes a person hot and a person ugly, based on sight? There are some pretty ugly people. But, what makes a person hot and a person ugly based on just looking at a person. Do tell.

Answer: I saw this thing on T.V. a while ago that said that beautiful people and hot people had more symetrical faces then "ugly" people.

Question: What are the benefits of marrying an ugly man? I'm not saying that i'll marry an ugly man just because he is ugly. But I just want to know what are the benefits of marrying an ugly man?

Answer: None. Just because he's ugly doesn't mean he won't cheat or has a great career. Marry for love and because you like the guy.

Question: Is it ugly to wear skinny jeans under a dress on graduation? I'm planning on buying a short mini dress for graduation and I was wondering if its ugly to wear skinny jeans under.. Is it a graduation thing or not?

Answer: Sorry but that's a fashion NO-NO. You should wear leggings under the dress instead with some ballet flats or heels that are short or medium length. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Question: How would you describe a really ugly woman and how would you describe a really ugly guy? How would you describe a really ugly woman and how would you describe a really ugly guy ? How an ugly woman has to be to be really ugly. How an ugly guy has to be to be really ugly.

Answer: Ugly woman : 1 agressive 2 fat with odor 3 yelling 4 old fashioned and feeling always shame for everything Ugly man : 1 Yelling 2 Fat with odor 3 Abussive

Question: Whats the difference between beautiful things and ugly things? I don't know. People say that others are ugly, but what is TRUE beauty? I've never seen something ugly, maybe stuff like crap {rofl idek} but apart from that. What is a beautiful person to you; whats an ugly person to you? I don't know about you, but I think everything is beautiful, though I may not act like it.

Answer: Usually, to most people, "beautiful" is defined as something nice and attractive to look at, whereas "ugly" means it is not a very pleasant thing to look at. But what really counts is the person's character and values. Don't judge someone just because they don't look like a catwalk model. I don't even think most catwalk models are that pretty nowadays, anyway. :)

Question: How does being born pretty or ugly affect your life on earth? What things do pretty people experience that ugly people don't? What do ugly people experience that pretty people don't?

Answer: As people approach extremes they will experience persecution. The very beautiful will be accused of not deserving merit for their effort, the ugly will get left out socially to some degree. As a person becomes older though if they have been a nice, generous, thoughtful and kind person the beauty on the inside will shine outwardly and they will become a beautiful person regardless of how they started. By the time you are thirty a beautiful person is not someone pretty, it is someone kind. Sadly the opposite is also true and anyone lacking character who reacts badly to every hardship and speaks death at every opportunity ends up a truly ugly person regardless of how they look.

Question: What is that ugly enter button on some macbooks for? Whenever I look at macbooks/mbp on photo sites, some have an ugly enter button shaped like a square balloon with a really thick string on the right side. Why do some keyboards look like that?

Answer: Because they are like that. A computer is not just about looks.

Question: How do I cover our apartments ugly plastic wall tiles? We rent and our kitchen is nice, except for the ugly beige and red plastic wall tiles. I noticed that the other kitchens in our building have nice white wainscoting, or white painted tiles. Ours is apparently the only ugly one. What could I do to cover them? I wouldn't like to paint, just something temporary.

Answer: You can't paint them temporarily. You can paint them with a specialty plastic paint, but you'd need the landlord's permission for that. Why not ask the landlord for his recommendation on the tiles?

Question: I have old and ugly oak kitchen cabinets that I want to repaint/refinish. Any ideas as to how to do this? My kitchen cabinest are old and ugly. They are oak and the finish has become almost an orangy colour. I want to either refinish or paint them. Has anyone tried this? What products have you used? Was it successful?

Answer: We had the same problem with the cheap oak cupboards we had. Here's what we did for an easy fix....we painted just the cabinet door...not the cabinet frame behind it. It was very simple to do. We chose the color that was the same as the wall color in the kitchen. You'd be surprised how good this looks...I wasn't sure at all until I saw the finished result. You just have to lightly sand the door and paint. No need to remove the cabinet doors. Also, add or change your hardware, (knobs or handles) to change the whole look. You can prime and seal, but we didn't even do that. I just keep a small baby food jar of the paint handy for any quick touch-ups. Good luck!

Question: What is the appropriate tip for an ugly waitress or a waiter ? Waiters I usually stiff. Ugly waitresses I usually stiff too unless there is a cute one working who might notice my crappy tip. What do you TIP men and ugly waitresses ?

Answer: 15% to 20 % ~

Question: What's the difference between being ugly and plain? I hear a lot of people call people ugly, but I would call them plain. They're nothing special, but nothing that makes you grimace. Do you consider plain ugly?

Answer: Ugly is only when you let someone call you that, ugly is also a type of person that has nothing better to do then chastise others. But actualy noone is ugly or plain. Everyone is different in their own way and if it helps everyone can be beautiful its just that they need to be happy with thenselves..

Question: How to deal with being ugly in a society that thrives on beauty? I'm not very good-looking mostly in the face but that's enough to send the women running. I thought i could make up for with my height of 6'3" and an average bulid but the face is everything. I've noticed i've got a really low job at work that doesn't require me to be around people and my coworkers are really ugly, one is even deformed.

Answer: throw your self of a cliff

Question: How can a average to ugly kind of guy improve his chances with women? If he shows a lot of affection and is nice does that improve his score with women. Or is he still ugly and normal women just don't care.

Answer: Everything above is good. btw not too long ago you could find a lot on this...try googling David DeAngelo and see what's still out there. I think he was the first reputable guy out there with a solid program who didn't feel the need to slam his competition or try to peddle gimmicky stuff.