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Question: What could lack of enthusiasm in a toddler mean? Lack of enthusiasm is usually attributed to teens or old people but what could cause a young child aged 4 to not want to run around and play with the others,to think, what's the point?! And to not want to take part in things, and to not like or trust people in general. Their parents are caring so they aren't being physically abused.

Answer: first, 4 isnt really a 'toddler' anymore, its a little kid. they should be social and want to play with other kids. shyness is one cause. but if they are saying 'whats the point' or seem to be thinking that, thats another matter, and one of concern. if they dont trust people in general, then im sorry but the parents are to blame. they are either FAR too overprotective of the child to the extent the child feels he or she cannot make a move without their permission, or they have taught the child that anyone apart from themselves is 'bad' and therefore should be ignored. both are terrible to do to a child. it may not be physical abuse, but its mental abuse, even if they dont realise what they are doing. the child may not feel loved by the parents, again, just cos you dont 'beat' ur kids doesnt mean u are a good parent.


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