Fat And Relationships

Question: Can it EVER happen in REALITY? a FAT girl and a hot guy? Hey this question is for everyone out there....Can a fat girl and a HOT and by HOT I mean really really SMOKIN' guy be together-forever? Or atleast in a relationship? Fat girl details ... she is very genuine, affable, cute, a lil short, compassionate, intelligent and talented let's say a wonderful musician? Then? I need HONEST answers....not SYMPATHETIC answers..... My point of view...IT CAN NEVER HAPPEN. The chances are negiligible!

Answer: Don't kid yourself. It CAN happen. I see it more often than you'd think. A sexy man with some big ugly girl (fat sometimes but just plain ugly in every way). It has to be based more on personality and character. So yes, it can happen. It just almost never happens without some kind of friendship being developed over a long time. If someone's physically unattractive, you don't tend to stick around unless you're good friends with them. Then an attraction may or may not come out of that.

Question: Do relationships really make you fat? Every relationship I've been in, I tend to put on weight and then lose it when I leave them. Has anyone noticed this in their own lives?

Answer: There are often a lot of "eating activities" in relationships. Going out to dinner is a fun date. Going to the movies and eating popcorn. Going out for drinks. All these fun calories add up, leading to gaining weight. Plus, you might not exercise as much because you want to spend time with your significant other. Then you break up. You might be a little depressed or upset, and not feel like eating. You want to look your best to meet someone new, so you start working out more, and eating better. And you lose weight. Then you meet someone else and the cycle starts again! Until you meet the perfect someone, gain a few pounds, then get engaged. Now you diet so you can look great in your wedding pictures. After the wedding you get content and fat again! :-)

Question: ok men in real relationships with fat girls not just chubby or curvey but really fat? like i was with someone who didnt care that i was fat and was good to me and really affectionate in public and well i still felt weird cuz i ---as obviously a fat girl but im not a monster----thought people would look or make fun of us or maybe i duno i guess im realistic or aware anyway despite society hating fat people and men not ussualy going for that type what makes a man ok with being with a fat girl , not just a married guy that has a guy that has a wife that got fat or i know that theres guys who dont care if its a 1night stand but do men just find themselves settleing for fat girls or are they genuinly atracted to them they way they are and do you get alot of s-h-i-t from friends and other people and would you let that afect a relationship even if this girl was perfect for you and are there guys out there who have a skinny grlfrnd and want a fat one? i know these are weird questions and im NOT tryin to cruise 4 guys on here i swear lol i just wanna know from a guy i meant to just say 'not just a married guy that has a wife he got kids with'...... i didnt mean to say 'A guy with a guy' lol sorry and yeah i mispelled too no im sincerly fat im not chubby with a complex im fat but im just okay with the adjective since well thats all it is it cant hurt me yeah the 3rd guy who answerd ----im not with this guy anymore he broke up with me he didnt say it was because im fat but i had a feeling maybe it was a factor too , yes i did in a way have a good thing going for me and ive been sad and missing that part about the relationship we once had but oh well

Answer: ideally, a guy should like u for what u are and not your looks. In reality, some guys can and are attracted to fat girls. I know I am. Some people, with low tolerance or complexes of their own, will criticize and see it as something weird. but who cares? the point is being happy. I think that people trash on the idea mainly because they have worked hard all their lives at being thin and can't believe that a fat person, who has enjoyed food luxuriously, can possibly achieve happiness. At least that's a theory and am sure it applies, if not to all, to some. Friends might joke around, but true friend don't do it, or only do it in the spirit of happy cheering, letting the person being trashed about it that they support his preference a hundred percent and never going too far. If its anything more than good fun, then they are truly not friends. And an FA would never let it get to him because he loves fat girls and the rest to hell. Some guys, I know a few, like fat girls but are too embarrassed, so they will never be happy and that's too bad for them. The guy loves you, not despite the fact you are fat, but partly because you are. Don't let it affect you negatively. Embrace the fact that the guy loves you and declares it to the world. you have something really awesome going on for you.

Question: fat people and relationships? have you ever looked at a fat person and thought of asking him/her out? if not then if you know a fat person and they are reeeeaaaalllyyy cool then have you ever thought you liked them? im just wondering =]]]

Answer: I have dated one plus size dude, and I would date another - if I liked their attitude.

Question: ok...big fat relationship question,serious replies only....? what is the key to a lasting relationship...men,what do you want in a woman.do you want a woman that can keep the house clean,cook,and be wifey/friend and lover...? do you want submission from her on some level?or would you rather have someone spunky,fun and outgoing and wont listen to anything u ask/tell her?who will also play the part of lover...what is the point where a woman is 'grown up' enough t date..why would a guy want something different.after he breaks up with a girl because he wants something different,is there a chance in hell they can be together again someday?or will he keep floating from person to person and keep wanting something 'different'? thanks people for all your answers...i love this man and find it hard knowing he wants something 'different' i do think about him several times a day,i do smile at him when he comes home from work because hes made my day all better.its felt like the most real/serious relationship i have had...is this only because im such a young twit and havent had the best of relationships before...i have shared a pregnancy scare with him,bills an apartment and a dog with him ... and much more...im not always the best with the chores and whatnot..as i tend to lose track of time when talking to friends and family...but other than that...i try to better myself for anyone im with,most of all this last fella...all ive ever wanted is someone that i can be happy with and that person is as happy with me as i am with them....

Answer: I'm not sure if this falls under your Suggested Answers, But this is what i want in a woman: she has to to be happy to see me even if she had the worse day of her life because seeing me made it all go away. Every time she sees me she wants to kiss me and Hug for a very long time, I would like her to think of me several time a day as i would her. we have to be able to communicate our feelings and thoughts to each other freely with out fear of what the other may think and not being hurtful to one another i would want her to be Comfortable and Confident about herself, her ability's and her Sexuality. then a clean house,sex,cooking,etc. will fall in place on its own due to the work of both of you.Trust is also what works in a lasting relationship. Cassie it sounds like this guy is missing out on a fine person his loss!!! trust me when i say you Will feel this away again be patient.

Question: fat girls and relationships is it hard to mainten ?? i have a friend that always seems to get involved with other guys who some how ends up leaving her and there is one particular guy that has never being her man but was evolved and she is always begging him for "some" despite the fact that he has a gf,could this be the reason why her other relationships failed. could it be the wrong choice of men??

Answer: first - your spelling sucks second - you are superficial three - since when did being thin give you any sort of advantage over someone when if we are going to go with physical appearance, one can be very attractive and still not fit society's standards to what is deemed as 'normal' or 'thin'? Perhaps she does have low self-esteem but that is not to say that it definitely derives from her being "fat". Too often in our society, women of all sizes, backgrounds, etc have low self-esteem because they are trying to uphold some standard that I presume you could say the media has created to define beauty. Most of the time the women that cover these magazines or are in the movies have so much airbrushing, surgery, and work done to them that it is impossible to ever look like them. I just wish that more people could embrace who they are flaws and all and that if it is something that truly bothers them, that they would take the necessary steps to make a change. I used to care too much about how I looked and now I realized what is more important is to be happy with myself, even if that goes against the majority's ideals of what is deemed beautiful. My boyfriend loves me for who I am and to be honest, I met him after gaining a little bit of weight. I was apprehensive about him meeting me because I didn't feel comfortable with myself but he is highly attracted to me and argues with me about trying to lose weight. He taught me to be comfortable with myself and not to doubt or worry about it and to be happy. He told me if it was that important to me to do whatever it takes so that I am happy again but I know that some little skinny chick could walk past and his eyes and attention will still be fixated on me. If your friend does project herself this way on account of low self esteem (the truth not actually her being fat...you so could've worded that one better), then she needs the support and encouragement to make changes in her life to be comfortable with herself and be happy and who knows, it might surprise you to find that her behavior has nothing to do with her weight...

Question: Fat Girls Intimate relationships? i know it is strange but i am fat, not chubby but not 300 lbs. i want to meet the right guy and i want to try roleplaying sex are there any guys out there thinking they WOULD do that if it was the right girl even if she was fat what i mean by roleplaying is like handcuffs and fun NO I AM NOT TRYING TO SELL MYSELF LMAO IM NOT THAT DESPERATE I WANTED TO KNOW IF THERES HOPE, thst for hos lol

Answer: Of course!

Question: What is the relationship between fat and protein in your diet?

Answer: Basiclly you need to limit your fat consumption to 'good' fats. Like Omega-3 and monosaturated fats. To get omega-3 you can eat salmon and flax seeds. To get monosaturated fats you can eat extra virgin olive oil and canola oil. Protein is a bit overrated, people contrate too much ine ating lots of protein when the reality is that your body can only absorb certain amount of proteins in a day, the rest gets stored. For a normal woman ages 20-50 the limit is 60 grams a day. If you eat more than that, you're really just eating extra calories are going to get stored as fat.

Question: FAT People In Relationships??? How important are looks in a relationship? Like how will being a bigger girl affect a relationship with a guy, who does love her. Honestly though.... For example he says it affects the relationship but he still loves me and never would give me up for it, and that he really just wants me to be happy and healthy. I just want to know how it may affect the relationship. He is only human I can't have a go at him for being shallow or anything but I do realise that is going to have an impact. I was never skinny, I was always a little bigger but I got PCOs and although my eating habits didn't help, my body stopped responding to exercise and stuff. I can do something about it -it just takes longer and sometimes I lack motivation. So since we started (three years ago), I have gained weight.

Answer: It can definitely sting when people point out something they dislike or find unattractive about you, especially when it's someone who's opinion you care about (such as a boyfriend), but if he loves you and only wants to see you happy, you should consider what he says. After all, while I certainly don't think that a person should feel ashamed of his- or herself for his/her appearance, it really is important for one's health to exercise and watch one's diet. Even if you're perfectly happy with how you look and feel now, I can't really think of a good reason NOT to try to get in better shape and improve one's health. You'll feel and look better for it, and it will show your boyfriend that you respect his opinion and care about what he thinks. All that said, if he's ridiculing you or criticizing you in an unloving or inconsiderate manner, there's no reason you should take such verbal abuse sitting down.

Question: Why do fat people love to be around skinny people especially in intimate relationships? Do fat people like and desire the smaller things in life? Do skinny people like and desire the bigger things in life? or just maybe fat people cook better and make love better than humans whom roam around this earth with the weight that adds up to untasteful bones?

Answer: I am skinny and I could careless about weight. Matter of fact I love my men with some weight on them. I have a few overweight friends and they are so fun to hang out with & I never make then feel bad because they are overweight. I wont do it & never will do it.

Question: Relationships make you fat? I think they do. Before I got with my boyfriend, I would eat SO healthy - brown rice, veggies, fruits, lean protein - I was a model of good healthy eating habits. Since I've been with him its been mostly healthy stuff, but not as often, and he wants to eat pizza, nachos, ice cream, etc. He isn't fat at all - he is a weightlifter and eats all those calories and then goes and works out for 2 hours - it works for him, but I've been gaining. I have only gained about 5 lbs, but it still bothers me. I need help! How can I make better choices for my diet if I am eating with him all the time - we eat together a lot, and usually wind up having something that is questionable at best. Help!!! I still work out as much as I can, but I am so busy with work and school, that I can't spend that much time at the gym. The most I have time for is 3-4 times a week for an hour. That WAS working. Aack!! What can I do? Help!! It drives me CRAZY - example - last night he made homemade tacos and nachos, and he ate about 10 tacos and half a pan of nachos - and you can STILL bounce a quarter off of any part of him. I had 1 taco, and some beef with tomatos/other filler, and I still felt bad because that was not normally what I would have had. It's terrible - how can he eat like that?

Answer: I swear, the main reason I lift weights is just so I can eat a lot, just like your boyfriend. Girls generally have much less muscle mass than guys, so eating all those bad foods will creep up very quickly. You might just have to start taking charge of your own diet and eat completely separate foods from your bf. Since he is trying to build muscle, he needs a lot of calories. You on the other hand, do not. Maybe you can do things like burritos. he could eat the beans and meat and everything, which would give him a lot of protein and calories, and you could just take the filler stuff without the tortillas and make a taco salad or something similar.

Question: Bout ready to throw in the towel on relationships and just get fat and let myself go, screw it!!!?

Answer: Don't. I did that, but after awhile I got lonely, then I had to clean myself up and get back out there.

Question: what is the relationship between fat and calories? Can it be in a math formula?? Thanks ^__^

Answer: 9 calories per gram of fat

Question: Is there relationship between fat and cancers?

Answer: There certainly is, especially in hormone-related cancers such as breast cancer, because fat cells produce estrogen, which fuels the cancer. "Fat" in this case means both being overweight and consuming a high-fat or moderate-fat diet. Fat can also lead to extra burdens on the liver, causing liver cancer and other cancers over time. There may be relationships to other types of cancer as well.

Question: I want out of my relationship with a fat gurl but I dont want to look bad!What to do!Help shes really ugly/fat? Help I want out we are on secretly yet I have another girlfreind whos hott!I want out without lookin bad because she aint gettin another bf and I know it cause noone wants her!Im sick of this and she be playin mind games!Help me!

Answer: I personally think you're too shallow to handle a relationship with somebody who doesn't meet you're perfect little standard. No girl like that exists. Your selfishness is going to break the heart of a girl who was under the impression you wanted to be with her because you liked her for what was on the inside. She wanted you to see past her looks. Yet you can't even do that and secretly you are cheating on her. You sound like the one playing games. You can't get out without looking bad. You'll end up suffering more than she will because everybody will know you're too shallow for a meaningful relationship. If you only want a girl for looks then you're not going to go very far. Your rep will take more hits than you realize.

Question: The table shows the relationship between calories and fat grams contained in orders of fried chicken? The table shows the relationship between calories and fat grams contained in orders of fried chicken from various restaurants. Calories 305 410 320 500 510 440 Fat Grams 28 34 28 41 42 38 Assuming the data can best be described by a linear model, how many fat grams would be expected to be contained in a 275-calorie order of fried chicken?

Answer: Approximately 25g of fat. Can be done on a TI83 calculator. If you would like to know how, edit your question and tell me so. Hope this helps. Best answers are always appreciated!! Thx